Jim is taking Casodex, and large doses of Ibuprofen for some Cipro related pains.   He’s taken one full course of the Casodex, and has had a bit of a rough time of it.   I hate that I can’t be with him all the time, but he is complaining of severe ache in his legs, more frequent urinary urges, and loss of appetite and drive.
There seem to be a few cognitive problems - very subtle nothing major,could just be age related and not related to the meds.   He was very very depressed one morning this week.  Pain and discomfort was a lot, and he hasn’t even started the radiation yet.  He doesn’t like not keeping busy, but the tendinitis and other joint pain keeps him from weed whacking and doing much strenuous activity.   He did drive 2 hours to Springfield yesterday and bought us a kayak.  We have PLANS for after this treatment is over!  Being around other people seems to keep his mind off the pain and discomfort.
  Next step is the marker implantation.  We will stay at the Cancer Society’s Hospitality House the night before as the procedure is early in the day.  It will give us a chance to get a feel for what he’ll need and how he’ll be living 5 days a week.   We have questions for the urologist too.

A neighbor had just had brachytherapy done, and we were hoping that was the option for us.  He highly recommended his radiologist/oncologist in Springfield, MO.  Dr. Helen Kim.  We called and got an appointment with her before we ever heard th diagnosis from the first doctor.  You have to feel comfortable and trust your doctor, and we did not like the impersonal unorganized atmosphere at the urologist’s office.
We made the 2 hour trip to meet with Dr. Helen after faxing up our medical records and preregistering.  We were met by the friendliest people - People wanting to help us - it was wonderful.  We talked with Dr. Helen for over an hour, and her news wasn’t good either.  Jim wasn’t a candidate for brachytherapy, but she said she had something for us.   Their department had just 1 month ago purchased a tomotherapy machine.  I had read about this on the web, and told Jim it sounded great for radiation, but we couldn’t find a place close enough, so it was a true blessing that this had happened.  The way I understand it - the tomotherapy works in conjunction with an image via a computer program and it can pinpoint the area that needs radiation very exactly - minimizing damage to surrounding tissue. 

Then she hit us with the bad news, hormone therapy.  This suppresses the testosterone in a man via a time released capsule that is embedded in his belly and a series of pills.   Well, you do what you have to do.  She told us he could have side affects from this therapy including hot flashes, loss of body muscle, and impotence. She said after 2 years and no more suppression, things could come back to normal.  Her office made a call to a urologist she recommended and we were able to get an appointment that day so we didn’t have to make the long trip again.   Once again, lots of faith and personality with this doctor.  He listened to Jim. 

We, I keep saying we, I mean Jim, I’m just so on this journay with him, at least I’m trying to be as much as I can, so forgive me if I we.

Jim told him about his tendonitis etc probably caused by 8 rounds of CIPRO in the last 2 years, he said “Fine - we’ll put down you’re allergic to CIPRO and you won’t get it again”.  He advised Jim to get the 1 month implant rather than the 4 month to see how he tolerates it.   We scheduled an appointment for in about 18 days later to have markers planted in the prostate to be used during the radiation treatments.   We had a nice supper at Hemingways and jim did some shopping at Bass Pro and we drove home.
Sticker shock the next day when I had the prescription filled - $321 with my discount for the hormone drug (Casodex)- holy moley.   I found a place that will pay for it, so I have to take paperwork with me next time when going for next round.  Wish someone had told me about it before!  I’m going to make sure the Dr. Office has it to give out to other patients.

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We’re just waiting until Aug 6 now.  Jim doesn’t seem to be having any bad affects yet from the hormones.

On June 26 we heard the word that literally shook our world.

Jim had been having some urinary problems - and had passed some stones and flakes.  The stones were pretty big, and having had bladder surgery 18 months ago, he was concerned the surgery didn’t work, or that this was something that was going to plague him forever.   He went to his local GP, and had some tests done, including a PSA, because it had been 2 years since his last one.  The nurse called in a few days and told him his PSA had gone from 5.4 to 9.2 in that 2 year period and he should see his urologist.   We still weren’t too worried as he had a biopsy done 2 years ago when he had TUMT performed for an infected prostate and it was clear of cancer.
After a little merry go round with getting a doctor (the previous doctor had retired) - he visited the doctor and had an exam.   Doctor felt a rough spot and put him on CIPRO in preparation for another biopsy.  This time there were to be 15 needles instead of the 4 2 years ago.
His report was not good.  The doctor said it was ‘aggressive prostate cancer” and his Gleason Score was 8.  He told us the treatments, and the pitfalls for all of them and then scheduled Jim for a bone scan, more blood work, and some other imaging.  Then we waited a week to hear the results. 
As far as he could tell, nothing had spread outside the prostate, unless it was microscopic.  Doctor recommended removal of the prostate, and were he to do the surgery he would not spare the nerves.
We knew before we got that report from him we were going to get a second opinion, and we did.

More on that next.